IN THE FLOW
By Joan Goldstein
Spring is the perennial reminder of new beginnings; of the life
force that exists inside everything, even when there appears to
be no life there; of the great Cosmic power that pushes a blade
of grass through a crack in a city sidewalk.
Human beings experience that life force in its highest intensity
when they fall in love. At this time it’s experienced as a
rush, a high, euphoria. And this is when we feel most alive. But
this energy is flowing through us at all times. It’s the power
behind every breath we take, the power behind our seeing and hearing:
In short, it’s the power that breathes life into our bodies,
the power behind our being able to get out of bed in the morning
and also the power behind our creativity.
When we’re feeling great, we’re aligned with this power.
When we’re feeling depleted, depressed or fatigued, we’re
blocking it somehow. No matter what the disguise, if we dig deeply
enough, we will find fear is at the bottom of any blockage. The
fear could be about anything, big or little. It usually takes the
form of “I can’t,” “I won’t be able
to,” “what if…”, and has to do with the
future. If at these times we can pull ourselves into the present,
and become absorbed in an activity in the present, we become more
alive. To paraphrase Scarlett O’Hara, let the future take
care of itself. This isn’t giving us carte blanche to be irresponsible
and not to prepare for the future, it means taking whatever actions
are necessary to deal with the future in a responsible way, then
letting go.
The seeds that are sown in the present will blossom whether we worry
about them or not, so we must do all the necessary preparation and
be sure to sow good seeds. If a blade of grass can push its way
through a crack in the cement, there’s no limit to what we
can do by aligning ourselves with the life force inside us.
The key to doing this is through stilling the mind. So sit quietly
in a comfortable upright posture, with your eyes closed, and taking
long even breaths, breath in life and breathe out anxiety. Feel
yourself filling with life, as you gently breathe in a long even
breath. Feel yourself lighter as you exhale. With each in-breath
you can silently repeat “breathing in, I’m alive,”
and with each out-breath, you can silently repeat “breathing
out, I am lighter.” If we can bring ourselves to do this exercise
for at least five minutes anytime we’re feeling depleted,
or anxious, we will begin to feel livelier and more in touch with
our inner source of life and energy. If we can commit to doing it
for longer periods of time, we will begin to transform our responses
to life and feel lighter and lighter.
As spring progresses, take the time to notice all the wonderful
beginnings nature has set before us as a model for our own never-ending
possibilities for new beginnings. As we notice each new blossoming,
we can take a wonderful long deep breath and acknowledge the miracle
of life in ourselves and in every tree and flower, dog, cat and
human that we see.
Blessings from my heart to yours!
Joan
| PRACTICE: To
practice letting go, sit in a quiet place with your eyes
closed and take three long, even breaths; inhaling and
exhaling very slowly. With each in-breath, feel yourself
becoming very strong. With each outbreath, breathe your
negative thought patterns away. Repeat to yourself, “I
no longer want to hide behind this habitual thought (name
the thought). I’m letting go.” Repeat this
three times, then focusing on the breath as it flows in
and out naturally, on each in breath repeat silently to
yourself, “Breathing in I feel strong,” with
each out breath, repeat silently to yourself, ‘Breathing
out, I let go.” Spend 5 to 10 minutes repeating
this exercise three times a day and say “yes”
to fuller living. PS: You can also practice repeating
these phrases while walking, driving, doing chores that
don’t require mental focus. |
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